Updated: Aug 10, 2020
Life has many challenges, but do you think you can get past them? Of course you can!
Avoid letting other people - or your own thoughts - tell you that you can't do whatever you have in mind. A challenge isn't a problem, it's an opportunity to excel and move forward. But you must see your challenge in a positive light or it may not offer you the forward movement you're really looking for.
Do you tackle challenges by getting stressed out and aggravated? If so, it's time to learn how to avoid that conflict and deal with stress effectively. Anyone can learn to do it, but the mindset is very important. Most of the struggles you face come from not looking at things through an optimist's eye.
Seeing your challenges as opportunities will help you make it through with flying colors.
The way a challenge is presented to you might be uncomfortable, but you can take that and turn it around to your advantage. Then, things that try to take you down can actually build you up and be used for your good, instead. You may even begin to look forward to your challenges to move ahead in life and accomplish even more.
The Size of the Challenge Is Irrelevant
Whether the challenge is a serious health issue, a job loss, or something else entirely, you can remain positive about it. No matter what happens in life, there is always joy and beauty that can be found, as well. If you look for the good things, you're going to find them; they're hiding in plain sight, just waiting to be discovered!
It can be more of a challenge to stay positive when big things come against you, but step back and give yourself permission to grieve for a little while. Avoid looking backward as much as possible, because it will be difficult to move forward if you're fixated on a past you cannot change.
See yourself as healthy, employed, happy, and whatever it is you need. There are baby-steps you can take to move in the direction of having what you want. It may seem like it's taking a long time, but it'll take even longer if you don't get started. Make a plan for your challenge, even if you start out slow, and avoid letting setbacks get you down. Everyone has them.
The Critical Key to Conquering Your Challenges
Just as you can get through any size challenge, you can also get through any type of challenge. That's the key that successful people use to unlock their goals and dreams. They avoid looking at how big or difficult their challenge is. Instead, they look at how big their faith is, and that can be faith in their Creator, or simply faith in themselves and their abilities.
If you look at what you can do, instead of what's coming against you, you can accomplish great things with what you have available. Take a look at what's challenging you today. There may be more than one thing, but you only need to work on conquering one of them at a time.
Make a list of your challenges. Choose the challenge that appears to be the easiest, the one you feel best about, or the one you most need to address. Whichever one you choose is fine. The point is that you can get started and be successful, no matter what you're facing, if you come up with a plan and stick with it. Then use your plan to conquer those challenges one at a time.
Challenges are something you'll face all your life, just like everyone else. Whether they get you down or build you up will be determined by how you see them. You can't choose your challenges, in most cases, but you can always choose how you react to them, and that can make all the difference in the world.
Latisa Be is a certified grief coach helping women to heal the wounds of the past so they can live a happier and healthier life. She teaches women who are ready to do something different to let go of emotional pain that has been holding them hostage for years. If you are ready to let go, schedule a free discovery session with Latisa